Archive - It's Not Just You

Plus some delightful creativity boosts.

Jan 16

On learning to love what we inherit from our parents. Plus a book review!

Jan 10

How to embrace the new year in all its madness. (Plus some weekly delights.)

Jan 3

In which we visit a strange festival of lights and remember how to catch the sun

Dec 27, 2021

A ribald obit, quirky art, and an homage to tackiness

Dec 23, 2021

Trips that didn't get canceled and other miracles

Dec 20, 2021

Summer under ice, prescriptions for dreamers, and solstice hopes

Dec 16, 2021

The insane stories we tell about the inner lives of animals and what they reveal about our other relationships.

Dec 12, 2021

Meet the revamped 'It's Not Just You' newsletter—and each other!

Dec 9, 2021

Slightly wicked comfort for anxious times

Oct 12, 2021

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